Being Positive with Divorced Parents

Recently i had a chat with a friend, and found out that her parents are divorced. So i decided that i had to write a post about being positive to those people who have divorcing or divorced parents. When my parents quarrel alot, i have thoughts about what would happen to me, if they were to divorced (But that didnt happen).

Here are the benefits i found about having divorced parents.

1) Always wanted that freedom, free from nagging. You got it now. Parents will be so buzy with their "Adults" problem that they will have no time for u.

2) Hate your mum but like your dad? or Hate your dad but like your mum? Now join one and leave the other one

3) If your parents remarry and both sides are happy. You will have 2 families, 2 houses, times 2 the allowance, times 2 gift during chirstmas, chinese new year, etc., or even the sister or brother that you always wanted (god-siblings).

4) Need something to do with parents consent? Your chance of getting your parent to agree to whatever you want to do just got higher. Usually divorced parents have opposite opinions. If your dad doesnt allow you, ask your mum, most likely she will allow you to do what you want and vice versa. It gets even better when both side remarry. You have 4 person to ask :)

5) This might actually be the opposite of 1). Sometimes after divorced, kids meant alot to their parents so parents will usually spend more time, or agree more to what their kids want.

There are more negativity if you are caught in a divorcing parent process. But hey, look at the bright side of things to cheer you up.

And if you have any more positive suggestion, leave it in the comment. Thanks!

Positivity in Losing a Best Friend

 

 Most of us have a best friend or many best friend. Best friends are like brother or sister from another mother. You treat them as part of your family. When you have problems, you tell them first. When you have secrets, they be the first person you share with. Best friend share the high and low of life, kindof like a wive and husband - the kids and kissing and sex haha.

But what if one day....

What will u do?

  Yes, it sucks to lose a best friend.

1) If you lose a best friend to someone else... Tell yourself that your best friend is missing out on having a great person like you.

2) If you lose a best friend because of an argument... Your best friend is not worth your time

3) If you lose a best friend because he/she have a bf or gf... They will breakup very soon, and they will be back to find you

4) If you lose a best friend because he/she thinks you are a bad friend... Check if you are really a bad friend, else get a new best friend

Its best NOT to lose a best friend because of whatever small matter that happen. But if really cant fix that relationship, there are always plenty of people out there that are willing to be your best friend.

Positivity in Breakups

So since nobody need any help now. I will post common situation that people are negative about.

Breakups

Almost everyone have experience this in their life. Being dump / breaking up from a relationship is not a  happy matter. Sure it can be painful for the first few days or weeks. But thinking about it for too long can be bad for anyone.

Lets move on to the bright side!

1) You will have more free time to spend with other people like your friends

2) More freedom to do what you want (If u were in a restrictive relationship)

3) Someone better is out there

4) You have gain experience on how to tell if a relationship is good or bad

5) Less dating expenses

If you have suggestions, leave them in the comment below and i will update this post

Good and Bad / Pros and Cons

Everything that exist or happened have both pros and cons / good and bad. Most of the time, people focus on the cons / bad. Thats why many of us are negative and always frowning. Even the tiniest things can make people sad or negative. For me and quite some people out there choose to find the pros / good in a situation that happen to us. Its not easy but its worth it. To focus on the pros / good can really change the day, it might even make a bad situation be a joke and laugh at it.

So if you are in a bad situation and cant find any pros / good in it, let me help you try find it. Just  "Help with your problems" Tab above and tell me your problem. You can do it anonymously.

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Hi! Hello! Hey! Whats up!

Im just someone who started this blog to help others. Im not just anyone, Im someone positive and wants to help others be positive. I had my ups and downs too. I had always listen to my friends complains, and their "sad" life, but unknowingly i found myself helping my friends to find the good in their "bad" situation and helping them be positive. 1 day i got an idea, an idea to use this positiveness of mine not to help my friends but also to help others as well. And so this is how this blog is born.

So if you have any situation that u wan me to help find the positive thing in, click the "Help with your Problem" tab and fill up your problems and i will try my best to help :)