Doing Security Checks at Airports

Airport is such an important place. Its a place that brings businessmen, travelers and other people to and fro from state to state, country to country. It is a big part of the economy. It boost the tourism rate in countries. Its a place people should feel happy to visit unless they are going to get deported haha. But many people are not happy with it. Travelers going airport should be happy because they are going on a holiday!! But i see many people not happy when entering the gate and doing security checks.


Why cant this people think positively?
The Security checks is to ensure safety in the airport and also on flight.
You dont want your plane to go down right?

Death

Death is a pretty sad thing for most people. It could be death of a close friend, parents, pets, relatives and just about anyone that u have a good relationship with. People get depress and devastated. Its difficult to see the positive side.

 When someone close to u die, u will know who is really the one who will stay by ur side to help u. To help u through the tough time. And for some culture, they celebrate the death of someone. So instead of mourning the death, they celebrate the person life. This is the most positive point to think about. And a song that really relates to this is Eminem - You're Never Over

Rejection

Jump in quick to topic. Rejection!
Confession to your Crush - Rejected
Business Proposal to boss - Rejected
Marriage Proposal - Rejected
Pay raise - Rejected
Holiday Plan - Rejected
Scholarship - Rejected
Bank loan - Rejected

Everyone gets rejected all the time. Every rejection is painful. I do sales as a part time job, and i have encounter many rejections, from family and relative to public. You can say its part and parcel of a sales job, but still it sucks.

 

On the positive side, rejection makes you stronger. After so many rejection, you will feel like its the norm and just continue with life. Its only the first few that have big impact on you.

Every rejection is also a chance to improve yourself, the chance to think through why people rejected you.

If you can find the reason why you got rejected, you will be able to correct that mistake and do better the next time

Stay Positive! Cheers!

Difficult - Unreasonable People

Who are these "difficult people"? These people are everywhere. They can be your boss, students, siblings, parents, almost anyone! These people are those who make you life suck, or at worst, like HELL! They could be demanding boss. Talkative students. Sibling with anger problems. Friends that are always disagreeing with you. Mum that is a clean freak. You get the idea right? (By the way, 2 of them are true for me :D ) These people make your life so challenging, you will want to just give up on life or avoid them at all cost.

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 Before you kill these people. Think positive!
These people like to throw challenges / obstacles in your way. If you can get through all that shit they threw at you. You will win the game and they might stop. And after you win them, you will find yourself mentally stronger than before. And the next time theres another difficult people in your way, you will be able to handle them easily. Your tolerance level is higher than before!

So think of difficult people in your life as a trainer who is train to help you make you stronger.

If theres any topics you want me to talk about, feel free to comment.

Friends that arent "Steady" enough

Everytime a group meetup fails, because no one wants to go. Or a surprise party for a close friend didnt happen because only afew could make it. Trying to plan a graduation trip, but it not working because no one seems interested at all. All these are because you are making friends that are not "Steady" or "ON". What do i mean by "Steady" and "ON" friends? This friends are the type that are always ready for something, they will go to most of the group outings, meetups, party, or just about any event / activities they are invited to. They are usually a fun bunch of people who have many interests. And if you are the type that always want to do fun stuff, or just hang out with friends, you REALLY need to have this type of friends around you. And if you dont, FIND THEM.

But anyway, this blog is about the pros in not having this type of friends.

1) Usually when you have this bunch of "Steady" N "ON" friends, they will have so much activities / events they will invite you to. And if you go to every single one of the event, you will not have much time for yourself, and might tired yourself out. So if you dont have these friends, you have plenty of time for yourself.

2) Every meetups, events, activities, certainly need you to spend money. So the lesser friends of these type, means less invite to events, means less spending, means u will hav more money!

3) These type of friends, their energy lvl is usually very high, and u have to be at that lvl to have fun.

And thats pretty much the only 3 things i can think of. If you have any suggestion, please leave a comment.
Thanks for reading!

No Clique

No Clique, No Friend, Alone. Clique are afew close friends who are together almost all of the time. Mostly seen in school. Clique usually have alot of fun, they are always joking, and could be the noisy group in class. They do almost everything together, and when the teacher says form a group of ... they dont need to think much about who to join. And if you are not part of any clique and really want to join one, think before you join.

Heres why being solo is better than being in a clique

1) Theres a reason why you arent in the clique. Usually people in the same clique have the same personality and behaviour. Your personality doesnt fit in with them, so u arent in their clique

2) When you are in a clique, most of the time you are either following or leading. If you are a follower, and they have decided on a place to go, you have to follow them, if you dont follow, they will say that u aint cool.
And if you are a leader, the rest will follow you wherever you want. But sometimes leaders will get sick of people following him everywhere every time and have no personal space. So if you are not in a clique, you are FREE.

3) Sometimes drama happens in a clique and things get ugly. You wont want to be there.

4) You dont have to specially join only 1 clique. You can just be normal friends with people in clique instead of being in a clique. This also lets you to "join" many different clique. Sometimes, clique will ask some of the other friends along. So if they ask u to join them for some event or maybe just go eat. Rejecting wont hurt your relationship with them.

There you have it. Being alone is sometimes much better than just joining a clique.

Always ask to do everything. Having alot responsibility

Responsibility is a very big word. Everyone has their own responsibility. Some have small responsibility, other have huge responsibility. From having to earn money for family to taking care of people you love. And everyone know that having responsibility sucks big time. But theres really no choice.Some responsibility can make you feel negative in the long term. Example: If a teenager have 5 younger siblings and a mum. Both the mum and that teenager have a big responsibility to provide for their family. And both of them might have to do almost anything or everything to fulfill their responsibility, this might make them negative.



How to feel positive about having Responsibility.

1) You have the responsibility because people trust you, they look up to you, they know that you are reliable.

2) They are not as good as you. When you and some other people have the same ability but you were given the responsibility, think that you are better than the other guy or the other guy is useless. It will make you feel much better.

3) If you have the skills to be responsible. Bigger opportunities will come your way easier because people know that you are reliable.

4) People love responsible people.

5) You are in control, You are the leader, because you have responsibility

Responsibility Quotes

 “Parents can only give good advice or put them on the right paths, but the final forming of a person's character lies in their own hands.”
― Anne Frank

“Man is condemned to be free; because once thrown into the world, he is responsible for everything he does.
It is up to you to give [life] a meaning.”
― Jean-Paul Sartre 

“In the long run, we shape our lives, and we shape ourselves. The process never ends until we die. And the choices we make are ultimately our own responsibility.”
― Eleanor Roosevelt 
  
"We are made wise not by the recollection of our past, but by the responsibility for our future.” 
— George Bernard Shaw 

"Action springs not from thought, but from a readiness for responsibility.” 
— Dietrich Bonhoeffer

More quotes here
 Quotes About Personal Responsibility 
Responsibility Quotes 

Now i have the responsibility to make sure this blog gets updated always for the people

Disability

So i know there are many out there that have physical disability, sight, hearing, movement, etc. I know these disabilities are very negative to the person who has it. I for example have a very poor vision. I had 2 operation on each of my eyes. And sometimes i do feel negative. I keep thinking why am i the only one who have this problem, why doesnt my friends have it. My vision is extremely bad. In class i could barely see the words on the board. Everyday i had to put on contact lens before class and take them out after class. Why dont i wear it the whole day? Cause the feeling of the contact lens on my eyes sucks. Thats why i take them off straight after class. So for those out there with disability, this is how i make this situation positive.

1) I keep telling myself that im special and different. And when theres bad, theres always good. So this disability is not really a disability, its an ability. Its because im living with a disadvantage, but im still doing what everyone else is doing, so im stronger than most people out there.

2) I tell myself that because i already had this disability/problem, i will not have any other health problem next time. This will be the one and only health problem i will be having for my whole life.

3) I might have this disability/problem, but there are others out there with problems worst than me.

We are stronger than the average human, Now i leave you guys to some inspirational quotes.

Here are some of my favourites

"Disability is not a brave struggle or 'courage in the face of adversity.' Disability is an art. It's an ingenious way to live." - Neil Marcus

 

"Just because a man lacks the use of his eyes doesn't mean he lacks vision." - Stevie Wonder

"Limitations only go so far." - Robert M. Hensel

"Why fit in when you were born to Stand Out?!" - Dr. Seuss

Credits and More quotes here:

http://www.whatdisability.com/inspiration/578-inspirational-disability-quotes

"Disability is not a brave struggle or 'courage in the face of adversity.' Disability is an art. It's an ingenious way to live." - Neil Marcus - See more at: http://www.whatdisability.com/inspiration/578-inspirational-disability-quotes#sthash.viVgEDUB.dpuf

"Disability is not a brave struggle or 'courage in the face of adversity.' Disability is an art. It's an ingenious way to live." - Neil Marcus - See more at: http://www.whatdisability.com/inspiration/578-inspirational-disability-quotes#sthash.viVgEDUB.dpuf