No Clique, No Friend, Alone. Clique are afew close friends who are together almost all of the time. Mostly seen in school. Clique usually have alot of fun, they are always joking, and could be the noisy group in class. They do almost everything together, and when the teacher says form a group of ... they dont need to think much about who to join. And if you are not part of any clique and really want to join one, think before you join.
Heres why being solo is better than being in a clique
1) Theres a reason why you arent in the clique. Usually people in the same clique have the same personality and behaviour. Your personality doesnt fit in with them, so u arent in their clique
2) When you are in a clique, most of the time you are either following or leading. If you are a follower, and they have decided on a place to go, you have to follow them, if you dont follow, they will say that u aint cool.
And if you are a leader, the rest will follow you wherever you want. But sometimes leaders will get sick of people following him everywhere every time and have no personal space. So if you are not in a clique, you are FREE.
3) Sometimes drama happens in a clique and things get ugly. You wont want to be there.
4) You dont have to specially join only 1 clique. You can just be normal friends with people in clique instead of being in a clique. This also lets you to "join" many different clique. Sometimes, clique will ask some of the other friends along. So if they ask u to join them for some event or maybe just go eat. Rejecting wont hurt your relationship with them.
There you have it. Being alone is sometimes much better than just joining a clique.
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